Mental Purgatory

I’m Eve, who eats the forbidden fruit. I’m Pandora, who opens the box. I’m an idealistic female who desires a society absent of gender and racial inequalities. I’m also a realist and I acknowledge that there’s a very slim chance this will happen anytime soon. But if no one strives for the change, then there’s no chance at all.

I very much love Jimi Hendrix, Stevie Nicks, the beautiful artwork of Gustav Klimt, Led Zeppelin, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill 1&2, books, KNOWLEDGE (intelligence and wisdom are sexy), and non sense.
~ Friday, December 16 ~
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I don’t like this expression “First World problems.” It is false and it is condescending. Yes, Nigerians struggle with floods or infant mortality. But these same Nigerians also deal with mundane and seemingly luxurious hassles. Connectivity issues on your BlackBerry, cost of car repair, how to sync your iPad, what brand of noodles to buy: Third World problems. All the silly stuff of life doesn’t disappear just because you’re black and live in a poorer country. People in the richer nations need a more robust sense of the lives being lived in the darker nations. Here’s a First World problem: the inability to see that others are as fully complex and as keen on technology and pleasure as you are.

One event that illustrated the gap between the Africa of conjecture and the real Africa was the BlackBerry outage of a few weeks ago. Who would have thought Research In Motion’s technical issues would cause so much annoyance and inconvenience in a place like Lagos? But of course it did, because people don’t wake up with “poor African” pasted on their foreheads. They live as citizens of the modern world. None of this is to deny the existence of social stratification and elite structures here. There are lifestyles of the rich and famous, sure. But the interesting thing about modern technology is how socially mobile it is—quite literally. Everyone in Lagos has a phone.

Teju Cole on the “#firstworldproblems” meme, in a series of tweets compiled by Alexis Madrigal (via occupiedterritories)

I actually really hate when people say this for a bevy of reasons and this gives voice to many of them.

(via thehallsofknowledge)

UGH, yes!

(via the-womanifesto)


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    Ever since reading this weeks ago, I think about this every time someone says “First World Problems,” and it makes me...
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    saying that these little things are unimportant, realise how good you have it?
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    amen to this. i’m so bothered that first world problems has been trending.
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